WTF?

Hey Guys!

It has been right at a week since I last posted. Where do I begin... so much has went on in such a small amount of time. I guess what I will first talk about is this past weekend. Before I start please understand that when I am done typing up this post I am getting started on a proposal for my very own reality show...

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I guess I will start out by recapping this past Friday. Anyone who knows me will tell you that I do enjoy happy hours (at least a couple of them) on Fridays after I am done with work. I randomly invite friends and co-workers alike out to join me in my "relaxation station".


Well... a couple weeks ago I met "Lite" through a really good friend of mine (on accident). Basically we (a group of 5) was out with a mutual friend, "Fox" having drinks. Fox had invited Lite to come and join us, but she was running very late. About ten minutes prior to everyone departing the restauraunt, Lite shows up. Most of the crew was ready to go, but me and my BF Princessa decided to stay and have another drink with her. After that drink the three of us headed to three other bars (we weren't ready to call it a night yet). Princessa dipped after the second bar and that left me and Lite hanging out alone. Lite was spending that evening getting over the break up of her and her girlfriend. Yes, I said girlfriend! Lite is a Lesbian. Who cares though? She was sweet as apple pie, so I treated her as I would have any of my friends. That night she vented into the wee hours about "love gone wrong" and that was a wrap!


On to this past friday. I invited Lite out for drinks with me and a co-worker. Things were great. We all sat and talked over drinks. Pretty soon it was time for me to make my departure. See, a friend of mine was visiting from Lake Charles, and I wanted to go meet up with him and friends. You see, a friend of his bartends at the Frenchy's (old school chicken shack) Chicken. I thought this was hilarious, because I wasn't aware that Frenchy's even had a bar. This is equivalent to Popeye's (in case you all aren't familiar with Houston) having a full service bar inside it's restaurant.

Not to be rude, I asked Lite if she would like to join us (as the other friend had to get back home to her fiance) and she obliged. So we headed over to meet up with the fellas. Looooooooonnnnnggggggg story short. As she got tipsier and tipsier slight advances were made. By the end of the night I was stuck in the middle while he was trying to make advances and she was "defending my honor", by yelling out phrases like, "You just want to F her!" and "That's why you are sitting all close and attempting to rub your D*** against her!". This was a tad "over the top" to me, so I pulled her aside.

I will admit that we were both a tad tipsy (her WAY more so than I) and we all were extra friendly with each other (her-I-the guy). That in no way meant I wanted EITHER of them in a sexual way.

So, after causing a HUGE scene in the restaraunt, we headed to the car. She got in hers... I in mine... and we headed in our own directions!

I know you all are thinking... "over the top", right?

Friday had nothing on Saturday!

Against my better judgement (I assumed that her behavior was a direct result of her drinking so much) I invited her to hang out with me and a good friend of mine the next day. To think, I thought the previous nights behavior was squashed and we would be able to just hang and enjoy the beautiful day.

Boy was I wrong!

We met up with a dear friend of mine Berry, (who I met through the same mutual friend that I met Lite through). Berry is the most down to earth "real" person you ever want to meet. When she intitially met Lite she had a few reservations... I assured her that all was cool.

That was indeed a LIE!

So to make another LLLLLLLLLLLOOOOOOOOONNNNNGGGGGGGGG story short, we sat down for drinks and a group of men swarmed around and soon settled at our table. They were really cool, and I was really "feeling" one in particular, Kub. We sat, talked and sipped on margarita's for awhile and engaged ourselves (Kub and I) in a very interesting conversation. I was so engrossed in my conversation that I didn't pay attention to what was going on around me.From the perspective of Berry, Lite was getting "jealous" that I wasn't talking to her, and so she began to drink (some of the other fellas' drink, as she didn't have her own).

All I remember is her "stumbling" out to the parking lot with the rest of us (at about 3am). I stopped her to ask her if she was ok. She replied, "No, I need you to take me home." Mind you... her area of town was a bout 30mins away. My apartment was 10. By chance, Berry was going her way, so I told her that she would make sure she made it safely. She then stated (more firmly), "I want YOU to take me". I replied again... "Berry will take you". She then yelled out (as a man in a relationship would) "No, YOU'RE going to take ME!". I looked... and just walk away and got in Kub's truck. I was not going to stand there and argue with some chick about something so insignificant.

After this she ran up to the car and tries to open the door to get me out. Obviously, it was locked, and Kub did not appreciate her pulling on his door, so he told her to get away from his car. I didn't her the whole word exchange outside of the car, but from what the others told me, her and Kub swapped words and then she referred to me as a "whore" who was going to go home with him that night and suck his d***.

The whole incident was a trip! She ended up calling me about ten times and waiting by my car for at least 30 mins, before she decided to go home. I then thanked Kub for waiting around with me, left his truck and got in my car, only to head home (BY MYSELF) to prepare for church the following day.

Dissection:

This story was long enough, but I do have a brief dissection. I don't care about sexual orientation. It is safe to say that I do find both men and women appealing. With that stated, I by no means date women... or even "hook up" with them for that fact. I am not in or entertaining a relationship with ANYONE right now. Am I flirty? Yes. Do I hang out with friends and enjoy myself? Yes. That night I was not going to be physical with ANYONE. I just felt it was weird that she assumed I was solely there for her in a "romantic" way.

I guess you live and learn!

Saturday, April 19th, 2008, was the 3rd and last time that Lite and I will ever speak and/or hang out. I do believe she is a good person, I just can't deal with the drama.

The End.

~wtfhappendtohangingoutandhavingagoodtime?~