So I am taking out more time to contribute to Da Lab. I mean DAMN… I have been gone for quite a bit. So much is happening in my life, I am getting a tad dizzy! So… basically me and my “EX” got back together. I initiated the reunion, now I am feeling a tad “weird” about the whole situation.
Let me first state, that there is nothing wrong with him. He is the most adorable person ever, and just plain out “him”. I have no complaints with people who are free to be themselves. We have such a connection, I am just not sure that we want the same things out of life. I think that both of us are extremely happy with who we are and have a HUGE affinity for each other. There are just certain thing that are EXTREMELY important to me, that doesn’t exactly top his prority list.
Let’s See…
1. Spirituality is of EXTREME importance and I want to share mine with my whole family. I want us ALL to be involved in church and incorporate God openly into our everyday life. (His “spirituality” view is more individualistic- which is fine… just not for me in the long run)
2. Commitment is a MUST… the fact of the matter is I want to get married and I want to have a family… NOW, I am not too keen on being a permanent girlfriend, I am a grown woman with a young child. (He really doesn’t want a “life” commitment… he is perfectly content with loving and caring for the person he is with from a distance. He views forever as a long time)
3. Being Pampered… ok…ok… I know this isn’t a must but it is important to me, and I am not ashamed to say it. I want some one who will take care of me mentally, emotionally, and financially. Don’t get it twisted… I am not a “gold digger” I have been on my grind for the last almost six years handling my business for my son. I have currently started to work on me, ensuring an AWESOME future for myself. I just want to be put in a position where I am with someone who adores me enough to spoil me (and I will “take care” of him too). (He believes in every person for themselves unless you are a blood relative- don’t get it twisted, he does have my back when I absolutely need him and I am grateful for that- I just personally feel “weird” at the thought of him “pampering” me, because I know it is not something that he is comfortable doing)
Dissection:
I guess those would have to be the main issues going on with me (and my relationship) currently. I am not sure if I rushed in too fast or not. I just missed my best friend. It’s just that when we were apart I found out some more things that were very important to me. I am giving this my best shot with no regrets. I am living each day as it comes and I am continuing to work on not worrying about the future.
It’s all in God’s hands. I promise I’m not crazy ya’ll! Just figuring it all out!
The End.
~emotionsmakeyoucrysometimes~
Thursday, January 29, 2009
Monday, January 26, 2009
Rai Day!!!!!!!!!
So… I am indeed alive and since I have created an inspirational Weight Loss blog at www.slimmingme.blogspot.com, I have definitely been neglecting Da Lab. Please don’t give up on me! I am making it my business to post more… I am going to be a “nut” for the next couple of months, before I start a new “personal” blog.
Well…well…well, it is 24 hours before my Birthday and I am indeed TIRED! I have to tell you all about it, where do I start…
Party Number 1!
Rai’s Pre-BDay Party!
This past Friday (Jan. 23rd) a dear friend of mine Bird was nice enough to open his house to myself and over 20 high school/college friends. We had what I would like to refer to as, “Drinks and Dialog”. The men and women wrote down issues and they were read and the other sex had an opportunity to comment on how they felt.
Shortly after that… tons of fun was had. There were recreational activities, both mental and physical along with an extreme amount of laughter. I mean, it was like we were in college all over again. People were dancing and laughing. Everyone forgot about their troubles if only for a moment. All of us are all grown up now with kids and everything; it was so good to see everyone “let their hair down” and have a good time!
Pretty soon everyone crashed… this brings me to the next morning. There were a total of eight of us in the house at that point and everyone was recouping. The three gentlemen (close friends of mine) that stayed over with us made the best breakfast. We had eggs, biscuits, bacon, and sausage and topped it off with fresh mimosas. Talk about a good morning… it was GREAT!
Myself and two of my friends that came down from Dallas showered (separately ;o) and headed to my house to prepare for my Official BDay Party (2nd)!
Party Number 2!
The Real Deal!
Salsa and Pink Roses!
Ok…as if Friday night wasn’t enough, we wanted to keep the party going. I had more friends/co-workers/colleagues meet up at a really nice Mexican Restaurant for Salsa Dancing and my big surprise. All of the ladies wore pink roses in their hair and we salsa dancing till our feet would move no more!
It was amazing to see all of the women (and men) interacting and having a GREAT time. We ate dinner, drank margaritas, and danced. It was such a marvelous time. I must admit though, I was a tad tired from the night before. I am not use to “partying” it up to that extent. I have been “dragging” every since.
As for my surprise… I HAVE A BOYFRIEND! It has been about a year since I was in a relationship, and I decided to do it again! I will tell you all about it in my next post.
Dissection:
Life is so funny… sometimes you get led an various directions, but it is so important to not forget where you came from or who loves you the most. I am glad I took the time out to celebrate my BDay with all of those I truly adore. God has blessed me to see another year and I don’t take it for granted!
The End.
~ahthespecialwaysofbirthdays!~
Well…well…well, it is 24 hours before my Birthday and I am indeed TIRED! I have to tell you all about it, where do I start…
Party Number 1!
Rai’s Pre-BDay Party!
This past Friday (Jan. 23rd) a dear friend of mine Bird was nice enough to open his house to myself and over 20 high school/college friends. We had what I would like to refer to as, “Drinks and Dialog”. The men and women wrote down issues and they were read and the other sex had an opportunity to comment on how they felt.
Shortly after that… tons of fun was had. There were recreational activities, both mental and physical along with an extreme amount of laughter. I mean, it was like we were in college all over again. People were dancing and laughing. Everyone forgot about their troubles if only for a moment. All of us are all grown up now with kids and everything; it was so good to see everyone “let their hair down” and have a good time!
Pretty soon everyone crashed… this brings me to the next morning. There were a total of eight of us in the house at that point and everyone was recouping. The three gentlemen (close friends of mine) that stayed over with us made the best breakfast. We had eggs, biscuits, bacon, and sausage and topped it off with fresh mimosas. Talk about a good morning… it was GREAT!
Myself and two of my friends that came down from Dallas showered (separately ;o) and headed to my house to prepare for my Official BDay Party (2nd)!
Party Number 2!
The Real Deal!
Salsa and Pink Roses!
Ok…as if Friday night wasn’t enough, we wanted to keep the party going. I had more friends/co-workers/colleagues meet up at a really nice Mexican Restaurant for Salsa Dancing and my big surprise. All of the ladies wore pink roses in their hair and we salsa dancing till our feet would move no more!
It was amazing to see all of the women (and men) interacting and having a GREAT time. We ate dinner, drank margaritas, and danced. It was such a marvelous time. I must admit though, I was a tad tired from the night before. I am not use to “partying” it up to that extent. I have been “dragging” every since.
As for my surprise… I HAVE A BOYFRIEND! It has been about a year since I was in a relationship, and I decided to do it again! I will tell you all about it in my next post.
Dissection:
Life is so funny… sometimes you get led an various directions, but it is so important to not forget where you came from or who loves you the most. I am glad I took the time out to celebrate my BDay with all of those I truly adore. God has blessed me to see another year and I don’t take it for granted!
The End.
~ahthespecialwaysofbirthdays!~
Tuesday, January 13, 2009
ALIVE... AT LAST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ok... I know it has been almost 6 months since my post, but I think I was scared in some weird way to start back posting. So much has changed in my life in the last half a year. I truly need to write a book. It would take a million blogs to really layout my mind set and feelings... I won't try to go there.
What I will do is speak from my heart. I have been on an extreme mission to enhance my mind, body and soul. I must say I am doing a pretty good job. Focusing on God, myself and Sun has worked wonders for me. I am also reaching out to inspire other women to enhance their lives as well.
Not to mention I am creating a new blog... don't worry... this blog will be around until April of this year, so I have aaaaaaaalllllllllllllllllooooooooooottttttttttttt of catching up to do.
Just thought I would bless this blog once again!
The End.
~insohappytobeback!!!~
What I will do is speak from my heart. I have been on an extreme mission to enhance my mind, body and soul. I must say I am doing a pretty good job. Focusing on God, myself and Sun has worked wonders for me. I am also reaching out to inspire other women to enhance their lives as well.
Not to mention I am creating a new blog... don't worry... this blog will be around until April of this year, so I have aaaaaaaalllllllllllllllllooooooooooottttttttttttt of catching up to do.
Just thought I would bless this blog once again!
The End.
~insohappytobeback!!!~
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